Happy Places – Weekly Photo Challenge
“Happiness is not a goal…it’s a by-product of a life well lived.”
Eleanor Roosevelt
(6 Photos)
Readers may wonder why I’ve chosen the photograph above in response to Krista’s “Happy Place” challenge this week. First, the road sign with the image of a camera represents the happy place I find myself in whenever I am out shooting, and even more so when I’m also traveling – an emotional rather than a literal happy place. Second, you’ll notice the Scottish road pictured actually has TWO lanes, each with enough space for a car AND a truck to travel, and no one has to worry about oncoming traffic – which makes it a particularly Happy Place. Third and most interestingly, the shot represents to me the happiness that comes from being able to laugh at ourselves. Let me explain…..
“No medicine cures what happiness cannot.”
Gabriel Marcia Marquez
While traveling the roads in Scotland we frequently came upon signs such as the one in my opening shot – a photo of a camera with no explanation. As a photographer I naturally assumed the signs meant there was a scenic viewpoint, and most often the sign appeared directly opposite a glorious landscape (no surprise considering the number of beautiful landscapes across the country). Because most of the roads in Scotland are quite narrow, the ability to pull over is very rare. Imagine my frustration when each time a camera sign appeared, there was in fact NO pullover spot until much further along, most often too far beyond the scenic view to capture it.
“The surest way to be happy is to seek happiness for others.”
Martin Luther King, Jr.
I mentioned my frustration to my daughter-in-law, whose family is from, and still partly located in, Scotland. Without calling me an idiot (which she had every right to do), she very sweetly explained that those signs designate SPEED cameras, and have absolutely nothing to do with the scenery nearby. Well DUH, of course they don’t !!!
“Whoever is happy will make others happy.”
Anne Frank
Now, I could have reacted a number of different ways. I could have been mortified to look foolish in front of my daughter-in-law and our families. I could have beat myself up emotionally for my stupidity. I could have had a bit of a rant about the fact that there is no explanation to go with the camera sign, like “SPEED CAMERAS IN USE”. Or, I could have laughed out loud at myself for assuming the “scenic view” explanation — which happily, is exactly what I did! And do you know what? It became a favorite memory of the trip which still makes me smile whenever I think about it.
“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”
Mahatma Gandhi
All of today’s photographs were taken during our Scotland adventure this fall. All of them represent Happy Places where I was able to shoot to my heart’s content after finding a somewhat convenient pullout spot. My husband, as always, was patient and supportive of my constant searching and stopping requests, and we only came close to causing serious traffic accidents twice – but as we like to say, close only counts in horseshoes, right? 😄
“Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting some on yourself.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Sincere thanks to the many readers who expressed concern about our situation here in the Charleston area due to last week’s horrific floods. Happily (which seems like this week’s theme) we were high and dry and had no issues other than the inconvenience of the many road closures in our area. Both downtown Charleston and Kiawah Island were completely closed off for 2 days due to the deep and dangerous waters clogging the roadways. Several of my friends here had water damage but none were life-threatening or permanent. Our thoughts are with the many area residents who were not as fortunate.
My best to everyone for a truly HAPPY week! To visit more Happy Places, click here.
Thank you for sharing that moment with us, Tina. 🙂 Life becomes a little less complicated when we have the ability to laugh at our self, doesn’t it?..when we take ourselves a little less seriously. Great post Tina, as always. 🙂
Thanks Uday–my sentiments exactly!
Tina-
I’m making an entry here – very late- this week. What a joy to see the photos from your trip, the sense of humor that I would have associated with you ( such a whimsical and positive point of view)…
but, BEST of all, the note that you and your family are safe and sound! I’m very sad and concerned for residents of your state that did not fare well in the storms and relieved that your family is ok. You have put my thoughts at rest.
Take care,
Jane
Many thanks Jane! We were indeed fortunate and are saddened by the after effects on so many of our neighbors and friends.
OMG….u r so funny!!! I LOVE these shots and also love (as always) your words….always heartfelt, warm, touching, funny, thoughtful……just brilliant really!!! thank u for this….as I have been stressing up here in VT (all good) what a nice break!!……on our way back…..YEAH!!
Thx April! Welcome home!
Lovely photos.
Thanks Adtix!
I am so glad to here that all is well for you after the storm. I hope others in the area recover soon. Love this post. I guess as we age – we learn to let go of things that irritate and if we can laugh at ourselves instead – all the better.
Thanks Nora! Yes, it seems easier to laugh than to stew over things, isn’t it?!
I love your mistake with speed cameras! It must have been so frustrating looking for somewhere to pull over. I’m smiling as I type 😀 Also there are often no speed cameras anyway and they’re just a warning!!! Great photos too. Scotland is very beautiful. 😀
😊 frustrating indeed Elle! Thx for stopping by.
I love that you could laugh at yourself AND share it with us afterwards. You know, I love my beautiful pictures, but my favorites are the ones that evoke wonderful memories. They’re not usually the prettiest ones, but they are my favorites.
Nancy
I agree wholeheartedly Nancy, thanks for your insightful comment!
Beautiful Scottish landscapes, Tina! And I had to smile at the camera story. I’m happy you’ve been high and dry.
Thanks very much Tiny, appreciate your comment. Glad I brought you a smile.
Very funny travel story, Tina.
Thanks Jane
Beautiful landscapes, Tina! And you story about the camera signs is hilarious:)
BTW, do you know that the word “sky” came from Old Norse, where it meant “cloud” or “gray” — probably because they rarely saw clear skies:).
I did NOT know that Svetlana, thanks for sharing it. There were many Norse settlers in Scotland, did you know THAT? Anyway, thanks for your lovely comment my friend.
Well, I’m married to a linguist, so I have to know:).
Thank you for your comment about the women. They and their brother (I actually suspect that he was their husband:)) were with us on our Spanish tour.
Love your quotes. Photos aren’t bad either.
😊 Thanks Gayle
Glad you escaped the worst of the flooding, Tina. 🙂 Beautiful shots as usual. I’m hoping to go to Scotland someday.
Thanks Sue – hope you get to go, it’s a magical journey!
I used to have a neighbor named ” Happy.” Aptly named as she spread joy always. Thank you for this “happy” post .and the many others that you have brought to us…
It was my pleasure Miss Linda – so glad you enjoyed!
Loved this post, Tina, I shall be smiling all day! It is most important that we can laugh at ourselves 😀
Thanks very much Sue – so glad you appreciated my little touch of humor!
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Ha! I never thought about it, but those signs really are very ambiguous… Still, at least by slowing down and looking for a place to take a photo, you did technically obey them 😀 Thanks for sharing your beautiful photos of Scotland!
I certainly did CCB!!! Glad you enjoyed.
Lovely shots of Scotland. Love the road sign with the image of a camera. 🙂
Thanks Kashpals!
I’m still chuckling at your interpretation of the camera. I would most definitely have thought the same as in Australia they do use a camera image to let you know a scenic area or look out is coming up and it usually has a convenient pull over place with plenty of space for parking. As always your quotes are so appropriate and you have captured a part of Scotland I did not expect. My imagination expects Scotland to be all towering mountains and glens. It is quite bucolic and beautiful in these photos
Well THANK YOU Pauline – I just KNEW it made sense. You Aussies are people after my own heart 😄. Glad I’ve shown you another side of Scotland too, it really is a magical place.
I had a bus trip there with my mother when I was about 11 years old and must admit the memories are very hazy, so I’m loving this series of your visit. They do put the cameras up for the iconic look outs but of course there are always so many more and the beauty of our roads, usually plenty of areas to pull over and not mush traffic.
Beautiful views, Tina. Really very scenic and peaceful. I had to smile when you said you thought the camera sign meant scenic views round the corner. I never thought of that and always thought they were pointing pointing out speed cameras 🙂 Always having the camera and photography on your mind, always in photographer mode but that isn’t always a bad thing – always ready to rock and roll what you love doing 🙂
I am indeed always ready to rock and roll Mabel!! Thanks for enjoying this one.
I like your photos of Scotland. The camera signage was funny.
Thanks Pam!! Hope you’re having fun out there.
Just think of all the photographers who began desperately scanning the landscape for the photo op after seeing those signs!
LOL, well I know of ONE photographer who did anyway!!! Thanks for stopping by Kat.
Such great Scottish scenes with your photos Tina, but I think the best one must have been when you heard your daughter-in-law’s explanation of the “photo signs” ~ that is a classic that will build over time, especially with your in-laws 🙂 Great story telling!
A lovely comment coming from a master storyteller Randall! Thanks very much.
HaHa…great story Tina…I would have thought the same thing. 🙂 Glad to hear all is well with you re: the flood.
Thanks Andy – appreciate your empathy on the sign LOL.
Hysterical. Thanks for sharing happy times & beautiful images. d
LOL – not surprised this one cracked you up Diane! Thanks for commenting!
What fun, Tina. Being on the road again always makes me happy, too.
janet
😄 thanks Janet!
I enjoyed your photos of lovely Scotland – and your sign interpretation! Those are the best kind of happy memories.
They are indeed – I’ll take that one with me for a long time! Thanks Lex
Oh Tina. As a Brit used to the camera signs, you made me smile. Whilst in Scotland I can easily understand your interpretation of the signs. Thank you for sharing these lovely quotes.
Thanks Ruth! here in the states we often have signs with things like a mountain peak or a pair of binoculars as a sign signifying a scenic lookout – live and learn eh?!
ahahahahaha great story and awesome shots! It’s always better to laugh at oneself rather than the opposite. It was fun to think that way! it only shows what kind of person you are! 😉
Why thanks Juls, for the lovely interpretation!!
Glad all is well in your area, and I did have a smile at the camera sign and its true meaning. 🙂
Thanks Judy – me too 😄 😄
Happiness is your place of photography, travels and quotes.Happy thanksgiving from Canada
Ah, that’s one of the nicest comments ever Perpetua – thanks so much. And Happy Thanksgiving to you!
A perfectly logical interpretation of the speed camera sign – did you get your picture taken – if so I recommend you sue for misrepresentation :
Fine images, great story.
LOL, not that I’m aware of !! Thanks for appreciating my little tale!
I think that your happy place is a combination of your inner lens and nature’s offerings, which makes for infinite creativity.
My inner lens – I LOVE that description Sally – thanks so much for the lovely comment.
Wonderful photos Tina, and a very amusing post to go with them 🙂 I’m not surprised you thought the ‘camera’ signs were for scenic view points, they don’t look like speed camera warnings. Glad you and the family are okay after the flooding 🙂
Thanks so much Andy – glad you enjoyed this one!
I’m sure I would make a similar type of mistake if ever I visited the USA 🙂
Beautiful images, Tina! Thank you for letting us know you were high and dry and had no issues…
Thanks so much Amy – yes we were incredibly fortunate unlike many others. Appreciate your concern.
We’re used to those speed camera warning signs in South Africa. It seems a bit odd to warn people though, but maybe it does make them slow down a bit. 🙂 Beautiful photos and quotes, Tina. Love the red barn image. Eleanor Roosevelt was a very wise woman.
Thanks so much Sylvia – on all counts! And actually, we did slow down at the signs because we were looking for the stopping point LOL. We never did speed anyway tho, because we were too frightened driving on the opposite side with oncoming cars and two inches of room between us!!
I had to think how I’d interpret that sign if I wasn’t from the UK. And a viewpoint does seem the most logical. Your interpretation reminded me of my M-i-L who thought the signs themselves were the speed cameras! After passing several of these signs on the way back to her home, she remarked at how many cameras there were on the road. I was puzzled as we had not past a single one. Bless her she is 91. And I also had a giggle at the way you were impressed with dual carriageways. Having driven in the US I can see why our ‘highways’ might be disturbing to you, my poor car bears the scars of narrow lanes, scratchy hedgerows and granite walls. I don’t do reversing very well 😉
Well Jude, you made my day with this one! Then again, your MIL is 91 so unlike me, she has a reasonable excuse!!! As for the highways, I don’t know how you guys do it on those teeny narrow roads. We can barely manage on our 4-lane super highways. On the other hand, I’m willing to be you have far fewer serious accidents since drivers are always aware of what’s around them. The biggest hazard for you guys must be drivers like us LOL
Great quotes and pictures. I love the opening quote from Eleanor Roosevelt best. You know, i had yo think twice about the camera sign when you mentioned it. It really isn’t so obvious if you’re not from here. It really could well have been a vista of great panorama for photography.
I loved that quote also WC, thanks for pointing it out. As for the signs, rest assured I’ll never make an assumption again!!!
A grey cow! That’s new to me. Really liked the Gandhi quote.
And to me too Sharon! Thanks for stopping by
Excellent landscape shots.
Many thanks Rabirius!
I probably would have thought the same thing about the signs. LOL I’m glad you are safe and dry.
Thanks for saying so, even if you’re just trying to make me feel better LOL! And also thanks for the “dry” wishes!
I always love your quotes with each photo. Both amazing!
Thanks so much Terri, I appreciate the feedback on the quotes – it’s become an obsession!!
It looks like a lot of work! I know how hard it is to find just that right one 🙂
Hi, Tina. I was thinking about you this week! I’m so glad you were “high and dry.” And I love your story about the speed cameras. Those “aha” moments are part of the joy of traveling and they remind us to laugh at ourselves! Be well–
Thanks so much for thinking of me Patti; we were very lucky. So many people got slammed. Appreciate also that you enjoyed my little story. I really did crack myself up!
I love those moments when we can laugh at ourselves.
Your reaction to the cameria sign is just what I would have expected of you, T. This blog will make me smile all day.
LOL, thanks Girlfriend!!!
😊 I so enjoyed this one … Put a laugh, chuckle and a smile…. Surely none of us
should take ourselves seriously eh?
~ as an aside , always see light colored cows or black, never grey ! This one is darn pretty ! Wonderfully captured
landscapes ~ totally agree, a happy place to be!
Thanks so much Atureaud – I thought the same thing, I’d NEVER seen a grey cow so I HAD to share it!
LOL!!!! ANYONE HERE WOULD HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THE SCENIC SHOT PULLOUT!!!
Whether that’s true or not, I sincerely appreciate your saying so LOL!!!!
Great Post.
Many thanks Mukul.