Lens-Artists Challenge #193 – Birthdays
“Life is a collage of events, really.”
Mohanial
This week John has asked us to feature a special birthday event (or several of them). I’m fortunate that my everyday life is something I celebrate, and because birthdays aren’t high on my list of favorite things, this one was extra challenging for me. My family and I do share one very special annual event each year however – our “Family Beach Week”, hence my focus for this week. Hopefully John will excuse the fact that it’s not truly a birthday event.
“It’s the little things that make happy moments, not grand events.”
Sharon Draper
I come from a large family which when assembled includes nearly 30 people including my siblings, their spouses and their children and grandchildren. We are located across the country and each year it becomes a bit more difficult to bring everyone together. That said, our annual “beach week” typically ends up with 25 or more of us, so clearly it’s a priority event for all.
“We should count our blessings more than our happenings.”
Ana Claudia Antunes
Each year my husband and I make a 2-day drive north to share a week of fun and chaos with family members. My husband was shell-shocked the first few years, as he comes from a much smaller family, but he’s long-since become as crazy as the rest of us 😊.
“The event is not over until everyone is tired of talking about it.”
Mason Cooley
We share meals (including an annual hardshell crab fest), music (including a naming competition),an annual T-Shirt commemorating the event (Happy Crab above was our featured Tee one year), sand sculpting, games and camaraderie as we get to know the newest family members and update ourselves on each others’ lives. The challenge of our “commute” becomes more difficult with each passing year, but we ever-more-clearly recognize the importance of reconnecting in-person with those we love.
“Life’s journey is one big path with a series of events.”
Lailah Gifty Akita
As shown above, it’s not always sunny and warm, and a few times it’s been beastly hot and is always crowded. It’s not the beach or the weather we seek however, rather it’s the time spent with loved ones from near and far. Making the extra effort to share one small set of treasured moments each year has become, for us, a very special event.
“Mile by mile one hits the milestone.”
Amit Kalantri
At the end of our return drive, brutal as usual, my husband and I swear we’ll never make the trip again. Yet here we are with our 2022 lodgings booked and our sights set on seeing everyone again this summer. A combination of Covid and our growing families has meant the end of our annual Christmas gathering and we are determined not to let the same thing happen to Family Beach Week.
Sincere thanks to John for the opportunity to reminisce about our special event. Now back to you – are you featuring a birthday, another celebration, or some event that’s special only to you? Whatever you choose, please remember to link your response to John’s original here, and to use the Lens-Artists Tag. Thanks also to Amy for last week’s Earth Story challenge. We saw earth from top to bottom, from sea to shore and from the mountains to the prairies. It was a marvelous display of Mother Earth’s many gifts as well as a number of reminders to protect her more fervently that we historically have.
As always, we thank you for joining us and hope you’ll be with us again this week and next, when Sofia leads our challenge on her Photographias blog. Until then, please stay safe and be kind.
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Birthdays, anniversaries and holidays we go out of our way for, but leave the extended family out. The only expectation is a good meal, maybe a dessert. 🙂
This is a lovely post and a glimpse into your busy life and how you make time for those who are so important to you. This was a hard one for me, too since I come from a super small family. Thanks for sharing another way to share.
My pleasure, thanks Marsha. Making memories, right?!
You bet. And storing them up on your blog for a smile when you need one.
Nice read. “The little things that make happy moments, not grand events”.
I enjoyed the quotes, the narrative style made it easy and fun to follow the story.
And I find the whole write up and picture combination brilliant.
Great job!
Thanks very much Benjamin
You are most welcome, madame.
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Wow Mrs Schell. Interesting blog about the Lens Artist Challenge.
Birthdays are very important events we should celebrate and honor them. I love this♥️
Also, it is those small moments that matter and not the grand events💯
Thanks very much Mthobisi
🙏You are welcome
Tina, so much fun reading about your family’s beach week! Sometimes chaotic fun is the best as lots of wonderful memories are made. A great post!!
Thanks Sylvia!
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Any family event is worth celebrating – it is so nice getting everyone together
It is indeed Karina – although it gets harder every year!
Great photos but an even better back story – family gatherings. I’m an only child, but my husband is one of 9. We have aged out of the cross country family gatherings because of passings and travel, but the memories of those wonderful yearly family reunions will be with us forever and always bring a smile. Enjoy as many of those beach weeks as possible. You’ll never regret it. 🙂
Wow – only child and one of 9 ! My husband comes from a small family while mine is large but your differences are far greater than ours Judy. So glad you were able to enjoy the large events along the way and my plan is to do so as long as we can but it does become pretty challenging. So many terrific memories tho! Thanks for stopping by, as always.
thanks, as always, for joining us Anjum
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Beautiful photos! I like the idea of Beach Week, but not ones that are that crowded! I would prefer Beach Day, every day, like the gorgeous photo you took of the “break in the clouds”.
I must agree with you on that Dawn – fortunately here on Kiawah every day IS beach day if you’re in the mood 😊
Oh, I bet it’s lovely! (And, the water is warmer than in SoCal! 😎)
For sure Dawn – in the summer it gets so warm it’s not even refreshing. I’m a hot weather gal tho so it works for me LOL.
I agree! I hate the cold. 😎
Everything beautiful, words and images ❤️
Thanks very much for your visit and comment.
You most welcome ❤️
Thanks 😊
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What a great family tradition, Tina. It sounds like a fun-filled, chaotic, and wonderful time. I’m hoping you have great weather this year and an equally great celebration. Your last 2 photos really resonated with me. I love the sky and clouds and the rainy scene. Just wonderful. Have a great week.
Thanks Patti – yes we’ve been doing it now for nearly 20 years. We’ve had many laughs thru the years and have made memories that will carry us through the years when we can no longer participate. Covid did stop us one year but so far all are signed up for 2022. I try not to think about the “commute” LOL.
Yes, a commute, indeed. But it will be worth it.
These beach images makes want to escape our freezing weather and travel somewhere south. That’s a great image of clouds above the beach..pinks and blues . Thanks for sharing this Anita
Thanks very much Anita. We’re well into spring here with summer not far behind. I’ll be thinking of you when we’re suffering our worst heat this summer!!
Maybe with the high heat you should into the ocean. .LOL
How lovely to spend the morning with you Tina and visiting all that I have missed on Travels and Trifles for far too long. Your pictures have certainly uplifted my spirits during these sad times that we are all living through. It’s amazing how we have shared so many of the places you have visited: Kinsale, Glacier Bay, Gourde, the drive from Melbourne to see the Apostles, Jaffa and so many more. I feel like I have been on a little holiday, something that has been sorely missed. Glad to see that all is well with you. Sending you my warmest wishes as always.💕
well hello there Andrew, how lovely to see your name. Unfortunately your comment went to spam but I found it there thank goodness. Appreciate your visit and comment very much. Yes, holidays have been few and far between of late. I see your posts but don’t always comment. they are always beautiful – my favorites of course are those of your beloved grandchildren!! Glad to know you are well! Fondest regards, as always.
Thanks Tina. Not surprisingly those are my favorites too 😊💕
Nice “photo report”. I also enjoy the beach, but not the crowd. As a single child, it’s difficult for me to imagine such gathering. Love your rain photo.
Thanks Nicole – with you 100% re the beach crowd. I’d never think of going there if not for the family gathering.
Tina, your family beach celebration is a great way for everyone to get together. I just love all your colorful beach images. The happy crab for your t-shirts is just too cute.
Thanks Beth. The crab Tee was one of my favorites LOL.
Do you still have it?
Oh but of course! I’ve saved every one of them. I did a photography book of all of our beach weeks for everyone in my family a few years ago and it was on the cover 😊
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Interesting habit, Tina. I love the idea. From your collection, I love the last one most for the serenity and how you captured the tinyness of humans in comparison with nature, although you set the humans in the center, nature dominates. It’s an image to print in big for the wall!
Many thanks Andre. I was happy that the family (not ours) planted themselves in exactly the right spot 😀. On the other hand, they had a long distance to run when the storm returned!
Oh, I think so, and sand slows one down enormously 😊
This is a wonderful tradition for a family to have! And it’s great that everyone makes an effort to be there, to make it special. I love the photo of the break in the clouds – I like my beaches uncrowded like that one 🙂
thanks Sarah – we certainly agree on that. Our beach here on Kiawah has NEVER seen crowds like that and hopefully never will. My sister-in-law laughs every time we say our beach is “crowded”. Typically that means more than 3 or 4 people are there LOL. Glad you enjoyed the closing image, it was a spectacular sky that day.
I’m not usually a Big Birthday Bash person either. But as you show, it’s definitely worth the effort sometimes. I love te way you’ve chosen the less-than-obvious moments.
Thanks so much Margaret. Like many others the family is not keen on having their photos online! I also do love the little moments that shape our memories.
Exactly. I’m looking at what I can find that’s Family-less in a Family Celebration!
Well, that’s an event to keep up with as long as you can, I guess!
We’re tryin Sue, we’re trying 😊!
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An annual holiday with the whole extended family is definitely as good as ten birthdays rolled into one, every year. That last photo is fantastic.
Oh so well said I.J.!! Many thanks.
Seeing as I come from a very small family, I was an only child, and all of my various cousins and Aunts and Uncles lived in England or Ireland, family gatherings are something I am completely unfamiliar with. But your beach week looks like a grand affair. And a celebration indeed!
You know, my husband and I are the only ones who live in the south Anne, so most of the time we’re on our own as well. Beach week is literally now the only time we see everyone together, which is part of why despite the difficulty of the travel, we keep pushing ourselves to be there. My mom was an only child and I think it’s part of why she had so many kids. She told me she hated not having brothers or sisters.
Enjoyed them all but that last shot stole my heart while the second made me shudder. That many people in one place/on one beach aren’t my cup of tea. The rainy shot is a good one as well. (They’re all good, but you know what I mean.)
janet
😊Thanks Janet, you rock! I’m with you 100%. Too crowded for us too. There’s always someone up at the house they rent right on the beach (we rent our own place nearby). We get to enjoy everyone in smaller doses most of the time, and then join in for the big events like the contests and meals.
I loved your photos and story, Tina. It sounds like a wonderful celebration of everyone’s birthday, all the birthdays that couldn’t be celebrated throughout the year.
Thanks Pat – yes it’s really a fun gathering. And nobody has to worry about being a year older LOL
This is such a great way of keeping up with life and family – I wish we could do something like that. But, we are not such a big family, and we are split up in small portions around the world. Love your choices of images, they really make me feel relaxed – hopefully the feeling you all have when you get together.
Hah – relaxed is not the word I’d choose A-C. More like chaotic or frenzied. Never a quiet moment. In fact my husband and I always take our own condo so that we can escape the noise as the evening draws to a close. The younger families party hearty into the night LOL!!
Haha – deceptive images then!
That last picture is lovely, I really like the composition and colours!
Thanks very much Kaylin, it was one of the most dramatic skies I’ve seen. wasn’t it nice of that family (not ours) to put themselves out there for perspective? 😊
Very helpful indeed! I love moments like that when everything just lines up perfectly 🙂
Beach Week! Looks summery! Love the rain shot and the clouds and sky following. I always say ‘into every rain a little life must fall’, twisted as I am. 🙂
If that’s twisted John, count me in! I too love the rain and the dramatic skies that come along with it. And yes, the annual gathering is typically in July and it doesn’t get much more summery than that!
Now that is a tradition to cherish Tina as long as you can keep up! We’re not very good at keeping close to the family, which is a shame.
It gets a bit harder every year Jude. The little ones are such a draw for me and they change so fast, I’d hate to miss a year! We’re up to 7 great-nieces and nephews with another due in June. I think being quite a distance from the family makes me cherish them all the more.
Now you have made me think how many great nieces and nephews I might have. I think only six and I have never seen any of them!
Tina and John-If I am not mistaken, wasn’t last week #193? This week should be 194.
Good topic too, since my birthday is in two weeks! Great posts too, thanks.
Hi there RB – actually no, last week was 192 so this is indeed 193 (altho I did have to look it up to be sure!!) Happy almost birthday to you, glad you enjoyed this one.
How fortunate you are, Tina, to have such a large loving family…people you really want to be with!!!
LOL you’re right Laurel. Since they’ve always been part of my life I honestly don’t stop to think about that. We do our best to look past each others’ shortcomings, including our own!
I am not big on birthdays either! I love your beach week photos!
Thanks so much Aletta, glad you enjoyed
It sounds like your annual family gathering is very special!
thanks Chava – it’s become the only time we all try to gather at once so we try to make the most of it!
Your post made me think of my own summer holidays, the only time of the year we, a group of friends that knew each other since we were toddlers, would spend time together. Those things are to be celebrated, I know that now, being away from it all for so many years. Terrific post, Tina.
Thanks so much Sofia. Yes, so many traditions have fallen by the wayside. I guess that’s part of the reason we cling to firmly to this last one.
Great nostalgic and reminiscent post…. Love the parting clouds photo. Particularly
Many thanks Miss Linda – it really was the most spectacular sky. Almost made the 2-day drive worth it all on its own!
Great response and wonderful photos. 😀 😀
Thanks so much Cee – glad you enjoyed
Your Family Beach Week sounds amazing Tina! Everyone pitching in and helping from feasting to fun games would make the celebration a truly memorable time for you all . I would imagine it’s a tradition to hold onto for as long as possible 🙂
I just LOVE that final photo… what a skyscape !
Poppy – how fabulous to see your name pop up!!! Hope all is well with you. And yes, it’s been a terrific tradition and is that much more so now that all of my nieces and nephews are bringing new little ones into the party. That last image was one of the most spectacular skies I’ve ever seen. I was so glad that family (not ours) was there to lend perspective.
Great nephews and Great nieces ! Aww how lovely .yes I can imagine you thinking ‘please please don’t pack up just yet ‘ for that last photo 😉
Thanks Tina all well 🙂 I surprised myself by taking a leap back into blogging again …
Hi Tina
Enjoyed learning a bit more about beach week – I knew a little bit about it – and also loved the quotes (the bits of rain and the mile by mile ) and quotes fit so well as you shared about the effort and enjoyment of making family beach week remain part of your life.
Also – side note – not too big on birthdays over here either! Maybe the milestone ones but I know a few folks who make way too big a deal
Out of their birthday (big needy babies at timesha) but to each their own!
LOL, know just what you mean Yvette. Birthdays were always a huge deal growing up. I’ll never forget on my 16th, my whole family agreed without telling me that they were all going to pretend they’d forgotten all about it. Then at dinnertime of course they made a big deal of it. But by then I was so upset I didn’t care about the celebration! That was a VERY long time ago and I still remember how upset I was!
That is kind of mean even tho they meant well!
We used to go camping for my birthday and one year everyone did forget my bday / so my mom ran off to the store and got the only thing they had for candles – a tweety bird – so she out that I top of a cheesecake and it was nice later in the day! However – for a few years in a row she kept the tweety bird theme going and I finally asked why / and told her I wasn’t really into tweety It’s! Loll (thought I saw a putty tat!)
And so now once in a while when we see tweety bird we take a pic and text it to each other
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But as an adult – I think having a dinner together is more than enough
With you on that Yvette – but laughed at the tweety bird story especially now that it’s a fond memory for both of you.
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Sounds like a wonderful celebration. You are very fortunate.
Thanks Dawn. It’s nice that everyone still cares enough to make the extra effort.
No wonder you make the trip a priority…it sounds like so much fun!
Thanks Sharon. Great fun while we’re there. The drive….not so much LOL
Happy annual event, Tina! A beautiful place to celebrate. 🙂
Thanks Amy – it’s fun for all of us.
Lovely pictures and post. Birthdays are not my favorite either. They always seemed to breed disappointment, heartache or upset, so I’ll just write that I lived vicariously through your photos! 😊
Well I’m suspect we’re a larger group of people than one might thank Gypsie 😊. Glad you enjoyed these and happy to welcome you to the “better than birthdays” club!
I believe television commercials have “poisoned” little girls minds concerning romance, love and marriage. Hallmark and Zales.
I can’t tell you how disappointed I was when on my BIG 50, expecting something magnificent (A ring I longed for) I received a box of red clay from the Dead-Sea to help erase wrinkles!
So not my most glorious birthday moment in my aging journey! LOL
What a wonderful celebration Tina! I’m so happy that you have a large family and can do a yearly get-a-way. Wonderful images!
Thanks Anne – it does create a bit of a challenge each year but so far we’ve not let that get in our way.
I have a notebook with a picture close to this with my writings.
Oh, those crowded umbrellas remind me of a day I spent on a Caribbean Island. You couldn’t see the sand for the people and umbrellas!
Oh, and I’m sure it was somebody’s birthday (or close to it) in your celebration… I’ll allow it. >grin<
LOL thanks John! Yes, the crowds there are amazing. Here on Kiawah I think they’d call in security to clear the beach if it got this crowded 😂
It was a picturesque feast to the eyes!Excellent Tina !Thanks for sharing!
My pleasure Dhirendra – many thanks!
Keep up the great work 🙏🏾
Excellent series.
The rain and the clouds pictures are my favorites.
Hi Rabirius – nice to see your name pop up. Glad you enjoyed this one.